Here are 10 steps to success or avoiding failure. We have it in our ‘hands’!
As a committed footballer, success was extremely important to me. That's why we trained as a team and gave everything. However, I also had to learn to deal with failure, because there were often stronger teams, happy winners maybe, but also more talented and stronger-willed. Ambition alone does not bring certain success.
I just had to learn in table tennis that the addiction to want to win is not socially beneficial. Who wants to play with someone who usually 'sucks' the others! And when there is a better one, he evades it.
It's not really fun and seems selfish and anti-social.
Defeating the other, is that real success? Does being successful-rich-have there must be losers? Enjoying performance is certainly good, but competition can often make you unhappy, whether as a winner or a loser.
So there are also difficult sides to success. Not every success is real success. When is success actually success? How do you see it
Wiki: "The term success describes the achievement of goals that you have set yourself. This applies to both individuals and organizations. Goals can be more
factual or material goals such as income or order
act on emotional or immaterial goals such as recognition.
Implementation skills are required to turn goals into results. "
There are different types of success:
Goal-oriented
The partial success which, however, does not fully achieve the goal, only partially.
The respectful success, which lags behind the primary goal in relation to this, but is nevertheless perceived as above average by a related group of viewers due to its absolute level of performance. (You get fourth and you can't get on the podium)
The healing success as the desired result of medical therapy.
The sham success as a result that is initially perceived as a success, but later turns out to be a failure.
We like to identify with winners so that we can share in their success. That seems to improve our quality of life. Interesting !
People-oriented
Personal success as a positive result of people's activities in terms of fulfilling their personal goals.
The leadership success as the personal success of the manager. This is reflected in the manager's certificate of good conduct and in his career success.
The business-economic success, the realization of goals in the context of a business or also an association or family.
Social success applies when other people have been made healthier, more mature and happier. This applies equally to child-rearing and adult education / care.
Character success is arguably the most challenging. This is about being able to let go, releasing and being free, loving and giving yourself. That has to do with HUMILITY, as the opposite of PRIDE. Such successes can hardly be measured in terms of depth and importance. People who are independent of vulnerability, who are so strong in self-worth that they cannot falter. They get their strength from their faith in God, who made them His children. This makes them more and more independent of external circumstances. Such people prepare for an afterlife, for Eternal Life.
Personal Success <=> Failure
Take a look at the two basic attitudes and tendencies. Successful and unsuccessful people differ as follows:
The more our left side is developed, the greater the likelihood that we will be happy too.
Implementation competence
Where there is a will, there is a way !
That sounds good and everyone is likely to agree. The question is, how do I influence my will? What can I do without being or remaining dependent on others?
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Because there the NEWSTART PLUS is explained with therapies and lectures adapted to the individual and then immediately put into practice. A blog about that would be due. NEWSTART PLUS is a holistic approach to recovery that tries to bring all 3 components (body, soul, spirit) into balance. This means that the chances of recovery for many diseases are many times that of medicinal treatment methods.
In principle, it is about strengthening the frontal lobe - the seat of the will. If that happens, then the person can very easily grow beyond himself. He almost doesn't know himself anymore.
If we have a lifestyle that weakens the frontal lobe, it is very difficult to go from the right side of failure to the left side of success. You give up much faster, tend to self-pity and lower self-worth, precisely because you are not master of yourself.
We will look at a very important component of our success in the following blogs:
Emotional Intelligence - a Guarantee of Success
Until next Wednesday. Greetings from the Sonnmatt
Don't let the right side get you down !! I wish you every success in putting it into practice every day!
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