My Short, Short Story
From my childhood, I have always been interested in people and their stories. What makes them tick, what frightens them, what makes them glad, how and why relationships work – or not.
To have a happy marriage and family was my greatest goal:
I have been happily married to my wife, Terri-Lynn since 1980 (see below). Together, we have experienced ups and downs and have come through with a much deeper and richer understanding. It was interesting to discover the key factors for a happy and successful family.
Unsere drei erwachsenen Kinder haben nun auch selber glückliche Familien / Beziehungen und stehen in Leitungsverantwortung von sozialen Unternehmen, wo sie ihre Kräfte sinnvoll nutzen. Das macht Freude !
I often see families and marriages that are fully engaged in a struggle for survival, which unfortunately doesn’t always end in success, although they could have been helped. Every marriage and every family has the right to live in harmonious relationships. Unfortunately, many sources of irritation disturb the peace and harmony we long for. It is my goal to replace these sources of irritation with sources of joy.
My personal experience, combined with the knowledge gained from extension studies, (and my children) motivated me to launch into this venture and to share these insights with many couples, families and singles.
Why not change sources of irritation to sources of joy?
My Dear Family
People are Important
My two pillars in life are LOVE and KNOWLEDGE (TRUTH).
Love expresses itself in relationships and needs a counterpart in order to develop. Love can drive fear away, and thus, more self-confidence, higher quality of life and an interesting access to freedom can be achieved.
To experience this freedom in real, balanced relationships, where the parties complement, think for and feel with each other, is truly the path to happiness.
To understand true love as it is played out in relationships – wise and positive, caring and dedicated – is that not the pinnacle of satisfaction? Over the years, my faith in a loving God has grown increasingly important to me: in it I have discovered a huge potential for healing and a source of love, from which everyone is invited to help themselves to as much as they would like.
My guiding theme is to see every individual, youth and adult, in his entirety and support him/her as holistically as possible.
Experience
My longtime experience as a teacher and counselor for children, youth and adults has had a great impact on my life.
To understand a person in the context of their life, to differentiate between relevance and deadweight, and to be able to constructively convey those insights to them, to make a positive impact in their life – this is a task that makes complete sense to me, in this world so full of confusion and destruction.
EVERYONE wants to be happy. To help others find their own unique path to happiness is a burning desire of my heart.
Discussion group with youth in Norway
My favorite Things
I love my wife’s cooking
Making music with our children at home or in public is always a highlight
My curiosity always leads me to new discoveries
Stimulating discussions with people who are looking for something better
Sports, like soccer, volleyball and jogging with Terri help me to stay fit and balanced
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RELATIONSHIPS (de)form HAPPINESS ”
